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You're Not Stuck. You're Loyal to an Old Identity.

June 9, 2026 · 31 min

You’re not stuck. You’re loyal. And loyalty can be withdrawn.

About This Episode

If you’ve ever said "I don’t know why I keep doing this to myself," this one is for you. Most ambitious, self-aware women aren’t actually stuck — they’re loyal. Loyal to a version of themselves that used to keep them safe, but no longer fits where they’re trying to go. In this episode, I unpack the four identities I see women silently loyal to (you’ll recognize at least two), share a personal story about a loyalty that cost me more than I want to admit, and give you the one question that changes how you move from here forward.